Old, New, Borrowed, and Blue
In the ever-evolving world of nuptials, especially in the vibrant Lebanese wedding scene, traditions have been swirling and twirling like dancers in a dabke line post-pandemic. Gone are the days when sticking a piece of dough on the doors of new homes or other unique Lebanese customs-defined matrimonial celebrations. Instead, a charming Western rhyme is taking center stage, weaving its way into the hearts of superstitious brides and grooms who are keen on sprinkling their big day with a dash of good fortune. As we step into the wedding season of 2024, let’s dive into this delightful tradition and discover how it’s finding its place in Lebanese weddings.
The Whimsical Rhyme of Luck: What, When, and Why
“Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” This catchy phrase isn’t just a collection of words; it’s a bundle of good luck charms each bride is encouraged to carry with her on her wedding day. But what does it all mean? “Something old” connects the bride to her past, honoring her family and her pre-married life. “Something new” represents hope and optimism for the future. Borrowing something brings good luck, especially if it’s from a happily married friend or family member, and blue symbolizes fidelity and love. In the heart of a Lebanese wedding, these tokens become more than just accessories; they’re a bridge between cultures, a nod to both tradition and hope.
Ideas for Incorporating These Charming Tokens in Your Lebanese Wedding
Infusing your Lebanese wedding with “something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue” can be both fun and meaningful. For something old, consider wearing a piece of vintage jewelry from your family, your mom or grandmother would be more than happy to lend you one!
Your “something new” could be your wedding dress, dazzling in its elegance, perhaps with intricate Lebanese embroidery as a nod to tradition. Borrow a handkerchief or a piece of jewelry from a loved one for your “something borrowed.”
And for that hint of blue? A delicate blue ribbon tied around your bouquet or a hidden blue gem in your attire can be a chic and subtle nod to this charming custom.
Many brides go for the elegant and chic blue shoes. You can even score borrowed, old, and blue if you borrow a piece of jewelry with a blue eye or a blue stone, you know, to keep the evil eye away.
The Guardians of Tradition: Who’s Responsible?
While the bride is the star of this tradition, she doesn’t have to go it alone. The maid of honor often steps in as the fairy godmother of these treasured items, ensuring each piece is ready for the big day. It’s a shared journey, a bonding experience that adds another layer of intimacy and meaning to the celebration. It’s not just about following a superstition; it’s about the collective joy and support that fills the air, making every moment even more special. At the end of the day, everyone wants to be a little bit involved or to feel useful on the big day!
A Celebration of Love, Luck, and Legacy
Lebanese weddings are grand affairs, pulsating with joy, love, and an infectious energy that’s hard to match. Incorporating a rhyme steeped in superstition and hope into such a rich cultural tapestry adds an extra layer of excitement and meaning. It’s a beautiful blend of old and new, of Eastern traditions and Western charms, creating a uniquely enchanting wedding experience.
As we embrace 2024, the spirit of Lebanese weddings continues to evolve, becoming a beautiful mosaic of traditions that celebrate love in all its forms. Whether you’re superstitious or not, weaving “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” into your wedding day is more than just a nod to luck; it’s a celebration of life’s journeys, the weaving together of families, and the sweet promise of future happiness. So, why not indulge in these playful superstitions? After all, they bring nothing but smiles, a sense of unity, and maybe, just maybe, a sprinkle of good fortune on your journey to forever.
Reference:
https://www.beirut.com/en/55103/8-lebanese-wedding-traditions-you-might-not-have-heard-of
https://www.brides.com/story/something-old-something-new-ideas-to-incorporate-into-your-wedding
https://www.brides.com/story/something-borrowed-something-blue-do-i-really-need-it-at-my-wedding
